Friday, August 27, 2004

Friday 8/27 - Recognizing and Avoiding Spyware

Because of its popularity, the internet has become an ideal target for advertising. As a result, spyware, or adware, has become increasingly prevalent. When troubleshooting problems with your computer, you may discover that the source of the problem is spyware software that has been installed on their machine without their knowledge.

What is spyware?

Despite its name, the term "spyware" doesn't refer to something used by undercover operatives, but rather by the advertising industry. In fact, spyware is also known as "adware." It refers to a category of software that, when installed on your computer, may send you pop-up ads, redirect your browser to certain web sites, or monitor the web sites that you visit. Some extreme, invasive versions of spyware may track exactly what keys you type.

Because of the extra processing, spyware may cause your computer to become slow or sluggish. There are also privacy implications:

  • What information is being gathered?
  • Who is receiving it?
  • How is it being used?

How do you know if there is spyware on your computer?

The following symptoms may indicate that spyware is installed on your computer:
  • you are subject to endless pop-up windows
  • you are redirected to web sites other than the one you typed into your browser
  • new, unexpected toolbars appear in your web browser
  • new, unexpected icons appear in the task tray at the bottom of your screen
  • your browser's home page suddenly changed
  • the search engine your browser opens when you click "search" has been changed
  • certain keys fail to work in your browser (e.g., the tab key doesn't work when you are moving to the next field within a form)
  • random Windows error messages begin to appear
  • your computer suddenly seems very slow when opening programs or processing tasks (saving files, etc.)

How can you prevent spyware from installing on your computer?

  • To avoid unintentionally installing it yourself, follow these good security practices:• Don't click on links within pop-up windows - Because pop-up windows are often a product of spyware, clicking on the window may install spyware software on your computer. To close the pop-up window, click on the "X" icon in the titlebar instead of a "close" link within the window.
  • Choose "no" when asked unexpected questions - Be wary of unexpected dialog boxes asking whether you want to run a particular program or perform another type of task. Always select "no" or "cancel," or close the dialog box by clicking the "X" icon in the titlebar.
  • Be wary of free downloadable software - There are many sites that offer customized toolbars or other features that appeal to users.
  • Don't download programs from sites you don't trust, and realize that you may be exposing your computer to spyware by downloading some of these programs.
  • Don't follow email links claiming to offer anti-spyware software - Like email viruses, the links may serve the opposite purpose and actually install the spyware it claims to be eliminating.
How do you remove spyware?

Run a full scan on your computer with your anti-virus software - Some anti-virus software will find and remove spyware, but it may not find the spyware when it is monitoring your computer in real time. Set your anti-virus software to prompt you to run a full scan periodically.

Run a legitimate product specifically designed to remove spyware

Wednesday, August 25, 2004

Wednesday 8/25 - Today is a Good Day

As every day passes, it becomes clear that the boys and I are going to continue to do well. We're back to some old routines with school. Our biggest problem now is getting all of the key dates on our calendars so we don't miss something important.

But every day takes us another day farther from Kathleen's memory. As many of you know, the boys had a chance to see her the last day. I will always be grateful that we could make that happen.

That was nearly two months ago. Where has the time gone?

On my last drive up to the hospital that morning, I had a chance to think a bit about what I was going to tell her during her final moments. We had talked many times about what she wanted. How she wanted to live. How she wanted to die. But it was then I knew what had to happen and how best to make it happen to her explicit instructions to me. She trusted me to make sure it happened correctly.

But what do you say to someone? Nothing I have ever read (and I doubt ever will) even discusses this. Maybe I should write the "Idiot's Guide to Saying Good Bye to Your Dying Spouse". I'm just not sure that it will be on Amazon.com's top ten list.

So here is what I told her on July 8th...

Kathy,

Today is a good day to die.

You have fought your battles bravely with courage and honor. You have lived your life full of faith and praise. You will always be remembered by those you have loved and those who love you.

I promise you that throughout the years to come many more will know who you are, what you tried to accomplish and how cruel it is that your time here was cut short.

I am here for you now to show you my love as you have always done for me. You trusted me with your most precious possession and I am here to ensure those wishes are met.

Today you die with dignity and respect.

You do not leave us alone.
You do not leave us in pain.
You do not leave us with strangers.

Today is a good day to die.

I'll see you on the other side.

Saturday, August 21, 2004

Saturday 8/21 - Pop Ups

An annoying feature of the Internet is Pop Up" ads -- advertisements which appear as new browser windows when you visit some websites. They are highly noticeable but very annoying.

To stop them, try installing the Google Tool bar for Internet Explorer. Besides having a cool search box to make Web searching easy, the tool bar allows you to block these annoying pop up ads.

If you are already using the Firefox browser, you're in luck. The new browser includes pop up blocking software already.

Pop Ups should be a thing of the past.

Thursday, August 19, 2004

Thursday 8/19 - The ABCs

The boys and I took some time off and headed east to North Carolina for some R&R last week. It was bittersweet because Kathy had planned this vacation during the dark, cold and snowy days last January. Since she couldn't easily fly, we had planned to drive. Alas, the 18 hour drive to the coast was a bit more than I expected. But we managed it just fine. Thank God for Game Cube and wireless headphones in the miniban!

We arrived right after Hurricane Alex for a beautiful week of 78 degree weather, blue skies, a gentle tropical breeze and 0% humidity. On the morning we left, Bonnie and Charley came roaring in. But we headed west and missed it all. It was a perfect week. and we needed it.

The time away gave us a chance to regroup as a family with just the three of us. We ate most of meals at the beach house. But we did venture out each day for an activity, shopping, aquarium, Wright Bros Memorial at Kitty Hawk, and the Cape Hatteras lighthouse. Which Alex and John will tell you has 268 steps--but only 257 can get you up to the top.

So we're back at real life again. The boys started school today. Another first we must go through. I suspect that we'll have lots more of these "firsts" over the coming year. Everyone made it home today from school in good spirits. The new routine will be good for everyone and we are expecting great things this year.


Tuesday, August 17, 2004

Tuesday 8/17 - Blessings

[Kathy rarely forwarded out email chain letters. But a few months ago, this email caught her attention and she sent it to a few friends. She told me that she received many positive responses. I thought that some of you might want to read her message as welll - Rodger]

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Hi there!

I don't normally pass on chain e-mail but I agreed with the message in this one and thought you might like to read it too. Hope I am not wrong!

Blessings upon you, Kathleen

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Read this line very slowly and let it sink in...

If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.

Pass this message to seven people except you and me. You will receive a miracle tomorrow ( just do it)!

THE BRICK

A young and successful executive was traveling down a neighborhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar.

He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars and slowed down when he thought he saw something.

As his car passed, no children appeared.

Instead, a brick smashed into the Jag's side door!

He slammed on the brakes and backed the Jag back to the spot where the brick had been thrown.

The angry driver then jumped out of the car, grabbed the nearest kid and pushed him up against a parked car shouting,

"What was that all about and who are you?

Just what the heck are you doing?

That's a new car and that brick you threw is going to cost a lot of money.

Why did you do it?"

The young boy was apologetic.

"Please, mister...please, I'm sorry but I didn't know what else to do,"

He pleaded.

"I threw the brick because no one else would stop..." With tears dripping down his face and off his chin, the youth pointed to a spot just around a parked car.

"It's my brother," he said.

"He rolled off the curb and fell out of his wheelchair and I can't lift him up."

Now sobbing, the boy asked the stunned executive,

"Would you please help me get him back into his wheelchair? He's hurt and he's too heavy for me."

Moved beyond words, the driver tried to swallow the rapidly swelling lump in his throat.

He hurriedly lifted the handicapped boy back into the wheelchair, then took out a linen handkerchief and dabbed at the fresh scrapes and cuts.

A quick look told him everything was going to be okay.

"Thank you and may God bless you," the grateful child told the stranger.

Too shook up for words, the man simply watched the boy push his wheelchair-bound brother down the sidewalk toward their home

It was a long, slow walk back to the Jaguar.

The damage was very noticeable, but the driver never bothered to repair the dented side door. He kept the dent there to remind him of this message:

"Don't go through life so fast that someone has to throw a brick at you to get your attention!"

God whispers in our souls and speaks to our hearts. Sometimes when we don't have time to listen, He has to throw a brick at us. It's our choice to listen or not.




Send this to every "beautiful person" you wish to bless, . God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain, but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way.

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A newly arrived soul in Heaven was met by St. Peter. The saint toured the soul around Heaven. Both of them walked side by side inside a large workroom filled with angels.

St. Peter stopped in front of the first section and said, "This is the Receiving Section. Here, all the petitions to God said in prayer are received".

The soul looked at the section, and it was terribly busy with so many angels sorting out petitions written on voluminous paper sheets from all the people of the world.

They walked again until they reached the 2nd section, and St. Peter told the soul, "This is the Packaging and Delivery Section".

Here, the graces and blessings the people asked for are packed and delivered to the persons who asked for them down on earth."

The soul saw how busy it was. There were so many angels working in that room, since so many blessing were being packed and delivered to Earth.

Finally at the farthest corner of the room, the soul stopped at the last section. To the surprise of the soul, only one angel stayed there idly, doing nothing.

"This is the Acknowledging Section," St. Peter told the soul.

"How is it that, there is no work here?"

"That's the sad thing," St. Peter answered. "After the people received the blessings they asked for, very few send their acknowledgments".

"How does one acknowledge God's blessing?"

"Simple," St. Peter answered. "Just say, "'Thank you, Lord'."

Thank you Lord, for giving me the chance to share this message with others and also, for giving me so many wonderful people to share this with.

If you have food in the refrigerator, clothes on your back, a roof overhead and a place to sleep .. you are richer than 75% of this world.

If you have money in the bank, in your wallet, and spare change in a dish someplace .. you are among the top 8% of the world's wealthy.

If you woke up this morning with more health than illness . . you are more blessed than the million who will not survive this week.

If you have never experienced the danger of battle, the loneliness of imprisonment, the agony of torture, or the pangs of starvation you are ahead of 500 million people in the world.

If you can attend a church meeting without fear of harassment, arrest, torture, or death ..you are more blessed than three billion people in the world.

If your parents are still alive and still married .. you are very rare.

If you hold up your head with a smile on your face and are truly thankful, you are blessed because the majority can, but most do not.

If you can hold someone's hand, hug them or even touch them on the shoulder.. you are blessed because you can offer healing touch.

If you can read this message, you just received a double blessing in that..someone was thinking of you, and furthermore, you are more blessed than over two billion people in the world that cannot read at all.

Have a good day, count your blessings, and if you want, pass this along to remind everyone else how blessed we all are.

THANK YOU LORD!

Thursday, August 05, 2004

Wednesday 8/5 - Interview with God

My friend Doug (from beautiful Bakersfield, CA) sent me this link today and I thought many of you would like to see it.

http://www.theinterviewwithgod.com/windowmovie.html


I'm going to take a little rest from all of the blogging. My fingers are raw to the bone.

If you haven't seen it, check out the Foundation website. A lot of progress has been made. Lots more to do. But it is a start and there are great things ahead.

I'll be back at this in a week or so. Boys will be going back to school. there are a lot of unfinished loose ends to close up.

Rodger

Tuesday, August 03, 2004

Tuesday 8/3 - RefDesk

Back in 1995 when the World Wide Web first appeared, there were only a few sites that were very interesting.

One was YAHOO. And it was still housed on Stanford University computers.

The other site was called Refdesk.

Since then YAHOO has morphed fropm a hobby site maintained by two PhD computer students into an incredible business that hardly resembles its modest beginnings.

But then there's ref desk. A free site that has stayed true to its original vision:

VISION STATEMENT: Refdesk is not about revenue. Refdesk is not about traffic. Refdesk is not about promotional vehicles or any form of commercialism. Refdesk is only about indexing quality Internet sites and assisting visitors in navigating these sites. At Refdesk that is all that counts and that is all that will ever count. Since 1995, Refdesk free and family friendly.
Avaritia facit Bardus - Greed makes you stupid.

The other interesting fact is that Bob Drudge created and still edits RefDesk. Oh yeah, his son was so impressed with refdesk he started a site too.


Sunday, August 01, 2004

Sunday 8/1 - The Message

When we remember someone like Kathy, each of us have different memories. Some remember her smile, fragrance, clothes, and manners. Others her works.

I knew her for 15 years so I have thousands of memories. But it is often the simple memories that last the longest.

One of the most memorable experience many of you may recall too. Five years ago Kathy recorded our home answering message. I heard it practically everyday. So did many of you.

I've recorded a new one at home.

But before I erased the old one, I saved it digitally. I've listened to it many times over the past weeks. I've found it to be a comforting reminder of her boundless energy and optimism. I hope you do too.